ORGASM:A GLIMPSE OF THE BEYOND

Dr Sudhansu Kumar Dash

The whole mankind is obliged to acknowledge the fact that man has remained the master for centuries making woman the slave .Woman has been auctioned, sold and sometimes has been burned alive The last inhuman act that could be done has been done to woman which constitute half of the humanity. Woman kind suffers a lot of sickness till date even in this so-called civilization and culture. This psychologically sick culture does not even acknowledge and recognize this sickness. The first step of treatment is to recognize that this so-called civilization and culture is sick-the unnaturality of relationship between man and woman.

The tremendous problem in man woman relationship is that man has the capacity for only one orgasm whereas woman has the capacity for multiple orgasms at the same time. This fact must be acknowledged at first sincerely. No problem would be there if monogamy had not been imposed upon them. It seems it is not the intention of nature because if it is not so, woman would not have been capacitated with multiple orgasms. Man knows this fact that a woman is more powerful than man in energy level it is the simple reason as to why man is afraid of woman. If man triggers one orgasm in woman, then a woman is ready at least for more than half a dozen orgasms and man is incapable of satisfying the woman. It is for this reason man always seeks a way not to give the woman even one orgasm and even to take away from her the conception that she can have the possibility of  an orgasm.

The second fact to be accepted is that the sex of man is just genital and therefore local but to the woman her sexuality is spread all over her body. It takes a longer time for the woman to be warmed up ,and before the woman gets wormed up ,the man is finished. For thousands of years, woman around the world have lived and died without knowing the greatest gift of nature that is the orgasmic joy.

Scientifically,sex should not be taken seriously because to give the woman the whole range of orgasm  some scientific vibrator can be used but the problem is that if scientific vibrator is used  it can give  as many  orgasms as  a woman is capable of, if once the woman knows it the man’s organ looks so poor that she may choose a scientific vibrator than a male partner. So in fear of it ,the simplest way man has found is to suppress the woman.

For o biological reproduction orgasm is not a necessity but for a spiritual growth, orgasm is a necessity. It is the orgasmic experiences of bliss given to mankind as a result of which man could know for the first time that there is the possibility of a boundless bliss beyond it. It is from this only the idea of meditation came in the early days and man started to search this bliss permanently through meditation. From this spark of this bliss for a very short time, man looked for something better more intense, more vital. Orgasm is nature’s indication that one is certain within oneself of a tremendous amount of bliss. One orgasm simply gives a taste of it and you go on searching for it.

Two things happen in orgasm; that is the mind seizes to be completely and for a moment it becomes a no-mind and the second thing is that the single moment of orgasmic joy is so intense and so fulfilling that it is equal to eternity. These are the two things that gives one the greatest pleasure possible naturally. It is also a simple and logical conclusion that if one can stop the chattering of the mind and mind becomes silent in its abyss everything stops –even time-and then one is free from sexuality. One need not depend on other person, man or woman and one is capable of attaining this state of meditation alone. Orgasm cannot be more than momentary, but meditation can be spread over the whole twenty-four hours. A Gautama Buddha lives every moment of his life in orgasmic joy –it has nothing to do with sex.

History shows that the maximum enlightened are men and very few women become enlightened. Among other reasons the most important reason is that they never had any taste of orgasm and prevented from spiritual growth. It is a birthright of both man and woman and one day woman shall wrest her birth right from her weaker counterpart.

Lecturer-in-English

Shreedhar Swamy College of Education and Technology

Sadangi,Dhenkanal,Odisha, INDIA